We need a new judicial system. One that works similar to how domestic violence cases are handled where the state takes over no matter what. Once you send in your paper work and make those claims, there is no turning back. Somebody is going to be prosecuted for something! Either the defendant is guilty or the plaintiff is being prosecuted for lying, perjury, slander, libel, etc. Oh yeah, we're going to get to the bottom (pun intended) of this. No more using the system and tax payer dollars to bluff or just see what will happen. If we implement something like this, maybe we won't keep getting caught with our pants down (pun intended).
On a more serious note check out the Fathers of the World Unite piece.